Independence, in my view - is to be free of his own illusions, suspiciousness of opinions about themselves and never about anything to spare. And on account of the fact that independence - when it does not need anyone, I do not think so. On the contrary, it is fine when you are surrounded by a lot of people, relatives, friends, and just good friends who can suck a cock. And always easier to solve a problem together than alone.
After all, you can be alone, to solve all problems by yourself and still be very dependent on himself. And you can rotate in a circle of people to solve problems together and remain free and independent.