Помогите ответить на вопросы If you had to choose between mariage and a career, which would you choose? 2. Marriage is a bad bargain for women. VJ. Writing: Your views on what it takes to have an ideal marriage.
If I had to choose between marriage and a career, it would be really hard to decide. On the one hand, it is a lifetime aspiration of mine to have a happy family, bring up my children and see my grandchildren get married as well. However on the other hand, to reach this, one needs a good self-sustainment in a form of a well-paid job. It is crucially important to provide for your family. That is why on the way to achieving my goal I cannot but get out of my way to find a good career.
I do not agree that marriage is a harmful decision for women. Is it not good to live happily not bothered by breadwinning but just raising your children and doing chores around the house? Well, today the society is even more progressive – it allows women to do whatever they want unconstrained, unshackled (provided they have enough time and resources for that). In any case, sharing your life with the beloved spouse, being surrounded by YOUR offspring is happiness.
Ideal marriage. If we talk about ideal marriage, to our imagination immediately come such pictures as smiling faces of a man and a woman hugging each other, or them rocking the cradle together, with a woman singing Rock-a-bye Baby and the man looking lovingly at them both... In my opinion, love makes the ideal marriage: when spouses love each other, love their life, their children and really want to live through whatever the future holds for them, the marriage can truly be called ideal. It is not a big problem if the man drinks or the woman likes Sunday lotteries – as long as they feel OK with that and do not harbour a grudge against each other, they live a happy life.
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